RELATIONSHIP COMPATIBILITY
Compatibility is more useful when it starts a conversation.
Matching on everything is neither realistic nor necessary. WovenLoves is designed to highlight where preferences align, where they differ and where a conversation may be useful, while protecting private answers.
COMPARE A TOPIC
Answer separately, then compare
Notice whether the difference matters before trying to ‘fix’ it.
Nothing entered here is stored or sent anywhere.
Difference is not automatically incompatibility
Some differences create friction; others make a relationship more flexible. The useful question is whether the difference affects a need, boundary or recurring decision and whether the people involved can work with it respectfully.
A single compatibility percentage hides that nuance. WovenLoves instead works with topic-level signals so a match can be celebrated, a Maybe can become a conversation and a firm boundary can remain protected.
Privacy matters when questions get personal
Not every useful insight requires revealing the original answer. WovenLoves separates private Explorer content from shared relationship features and can use only the signals a feature is permitted to use.
For sensitive areas, a boundary should prevent an unsuitable recommendation rather than become a clue about who privately said no.
ALL SAMPLE PROMPTS
Use the full set
- How planned do you like weekends to be: scheduled, loosely planned or spontaneous?
- After conflict, do you prefer to talk quickly, take a short pause or have more space first?
- How important is regular social time with friends outside the relationship?
- Which feels more valuable for a free evening: rest, conversation, activity or novelty?
- How do you prefer to make bigger purchases: decide quickly, research together or set a budget first?
- How much advance notice makes a social plan feel comfortable?
- Which kind of affection matters most in everyday life?
- How important is having separate hobbies or independent time?
- When travelling, do you value comfort, exploration, food, culture or flexibility most?
- How do you prefer appreciation to be shown: words, actions, time, touch or thoughtful details?
- What level of routine makes home life feel calm rather than repetitive?
- How do you prefer to approach a new shared experience: research first or discover as you go?
MORE THAN A QUESTION LIST
WovenLoves connects discovery to what happens next.
Questions can feed understanding. Games can add progress. Quests turn ideas into actions. Gold can build toward rewards the relationship defines. Private reflection stays separate from shared features unless a feature is allowed to use a derived signal.